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Apakah semua rangkaian haji yang merupakan wajib haji kalau ditinggalkan karena sesuatu dan lain hal boleh digantikan dengan dam?

Jawab:
Betul. Wajib haji yang tidak bisa dilaksanakan harus diganti dengan Dam yaitu memotong seekor kambing, seperti:
- Tidak Mabit di Muzdalifah atau Mina.
- Melewati Miqot Makani tidak berniat Ihrom.
- Membungkus kaki atau menutup kepala karena uzur bagi pria.
Tapi kalau melanggar larangan ihrom seperti pakai minyak wangi, memotong rambut atau kuku, memetik tumbuh-tumbuhan Damnya cukup sekitar 20 real, tidak memotong seekor kambing.

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TINGGALKAN WAJIB HAJI, BOLEH DIGANTI DAM?

JAKARTA, Saco-Indonesia.com — Kepolisian tengah mendalami kaitan peristiwa bom bunuh diri di halaman Markas Polres Poso, Sulawesi Tengah, dengan terpidana teroris yang melarikan diri di Poso, yakni Basri. Basri hingga kini belum berhasil ditemukan.

"Kita tahu pada waktu lalu juga ada tahanan di LP yang melarikan diri. Apakah itu ada kaitannya dengan itu dan jaringan lainnya sedang kami dalami," ujar Kepala Divisi Humas Polri Inspektur Jenderal Suhardi Alius, di Mabes Polri, Jakarta Selatan, Senin (3/6/2013).

Eksekutor bom bunuh diri pada Senin pagi diketahui seorang laki-laki. Bagian tubuh pelaku hancur dan terpisah. Namun, bagian kepala tidak mengalami luka parah dan wajahnya masih dapat dikenali. Tim DVI Mabes Polri telah diturunkan untuk mengidentifikasi pelaku.

"Mudah-mudahan Polri bisa mengungkap dengan cepat identitas yang bersangkutan sehingga dengan cepat mendapat identifikasi dari jaringan dan kelompok mana," kata Suhardi.

Pelaku diduga kelompok jaringan teroris Poso yang dipimpin Santoso. Adapun Basri alias Bagong alias Ayas melarikan diri dari Lembaga Pemasyarakatan Kelas II Ampana, Kabupaten Tojo Una-Una, Sulawesi Tengah, Jumat (19/4/2013). Basri melarikan diri setelah meminta izin menengok istrinya yang sedang sakit. Saat itu, ia hanya ditemani seorang petugas lapas berinisial WS.

Untuk diketahui, Basri merupakan narapidana terorisme dalam kasus pembunuhan mutilasi terhadap tiga orang siswi SMA di Poso pada 2005. Dia juga terlibat peledakan bom dan penembakan seorang kepala desa di Poso. Setelah beberapa kali menjalani persidangan, Basri alias Bagong akhirnya divonis 19 tahun penjara oleh Majelis Hakim Pengadilan Negeri Jakarta Selatan pada 11 Desember 2007 lalu.

 
Editor :Liwon Maulana
Sumber:Kompas.com
Polisi Mendalami Kaitan Bom Bunuh Diri dengan Teroris yang Kabur

Jual Vimax Asli Obat Pembesar Alat Vital Pria Bergaransi
Jual Vimax Asli Murah Obat Pembesar Alat Vital Pria – Kita mengetahui bahwa setiap pria dan wanita mendambakan hubungan seksual yang saling memuaskan. Namun, kerap timbul masalah karena ukuran alat vital pria (penis suami) kurang besar, mudah ejakulasi dini, Mr P Sulit Ereksi, dan kalaupun alat kelamin laki-laki itu mengalami ereksi, ereksi yang terjadi tidak keras, ditambah lagi masalah kesehatan seks lainnya.

Hal ini menyebabkan pasangan anda (istri) merasa belum puas dan kecewa meskipun anda merasa sudah puas saat berhubungan intim.

Jika anda hanya mencukupkan dengan kepuasan sendiri tanpa memikirkan kepuasan istri tentu anda akan terkesan egois, karena seks bertujuan untuk mendapatkan hubungan indah yang saling memuaskan ke dua belah pihak.

Apabila seorang lelaki mengalami masalah Kesehatan Seks dan masalah Ukuran Penis, tanpa ada usaha memuaskan pasangan maka bisa di katakan: “laki-laki itu ia tidak melakukan tanggung jawabnya dengan baik”.

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Survei membuktikan bahwa:
7 dari 10 orang pria mengalami Ejakulasi dini,
75 % Wanita tidak puas dengan ukuran penis pasangannya,
73% wanita tidak merasa puas selama berhubungan intim
lebih dari 75% wanita di dunia ini menginginkan pasangannya memiliki penis yang panjang dan besar,
2 dari 3 orang wanita tidak puas dengan ukuran penis pasangannya
88,7% dari pria akan mencoba membesarkan alat vitalnya
Tentunya anda sendiri akan merasa frustasi dan kehilangan rasa percaya diri ketika ukuran penis atau Alat Vital anda kurang besar, Kurang Panjang, Ejakulasi dini, Sulit ereksi atau Ereksi tidak keras.

Tidak sedikit dari para istri yang memalsukan orgasme agar suami merasa senang dan tidak minder, meskipun sebenarnya mereka belum pernah mencapai klimaks selama berhubungan dengan pasangannya. Semua ini lama-kelamaan jika tetap di biarkan maka ujung-ujungnya adalah perselingkuhan dan perceraian, karena istri tidak pernah mendapatkan hal yang di dambakan dari hubungan suami istri.

Sehingga solusi untuk menjadi pria sejati, agar memiliki ukuran alat vital yang besar panjang dan ereksi keras tahan lama berhubungan, dan membuat pasangan anda merasa kagum dengan ukuran yang memenuhi alat kelamin nya, Adalah dengan berobat.

Lalu apa obat pembesar dan panjang alat vital laki-laki? atau apa obat herbal pembesar alat vital pria secara alami?

Sebelum di jawab, saya sarankan agar anda tidak mencoba metode yang bisa membahayakan Alat Vital Anda, semisal:
Alat pompa penis: alat ini hanya memberikan hasil sesaat (tidak permanen) bahkan dapat menyebabkan rusaknya pembuluh darah penis yang berujung pada impotensi.
Pemberat: metode ini sangat berbahaya karena bisa mengakibatkan cedera serius pada alat vital dan hasilnya pun tidak memuaskan.
Operasi: metode ini memang bisa memperpanjang alat vital namun akan menurunkan kualitas ereksi anda. Cara ini juga beresiko tinggi, di samping biaya yang harus dikeluarkan relatif sangat mahal, mencapai puluhan juta rupiah.
Oleh sebab itu disini saya menawarkan kepada anda, obat untuk pembesar alat vital pria, herbal alami terbaik yang sudah di gunakan lebih dari satu juta lelaki diseluruh dunia sejak 15 tahun yang lalu.

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Vimax memberikan hasil yang permanen, anda dapat mengontrol pertumbuhan Mr P, jika telah mendapatkan ukuran optimal yang anda kehendaki, anda bisa menghentikan penggunaanVimax Kapsul.

Kebanyakan wanita hanya bisa nyaman dengan ukuran penis 9 inchi, sehingga disarankan agar tidak lebih dari itu.

Kapan Hasil maksimalnya dapat terlihat?
Minggun 1-4: perubahan nyata penis anda akan lebih besar dan panjang ereksi lebih lama
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Orang-orang ini dikenal karena memiliki kebiasaan aneh ataupun kejadian unik yang dialaminya. Mulai dari orang yang tidak pernah tidur selama 30 tahun lebih! Ada pula pria yang punya kebiasaan aneh, yakni memakan benda-benda yang secara normal tak bisa dicerna tubuh manusia. Misalnya, sepeda, televisi, hingga pesawat Cessna 150. Astaga!

Berikut 6 pria paling aneh di muka bumi seperti dirangkum dari dari berbagai sumber:

1. Thai Ngoc, tidak tidur 30 tahun lebih

Pria Vietnam ini tak bisa tidur sejak menderita demam pada tahun 1973. Menurut media Vietnam, Thanh Nien, dia mengklaim tak pernah tidur selama 33 tahun. Selama itu, Thai Ngoc atau Hai Ngoc yang dilahirkan tahun 1942 ini menggunakan 'waktu luangnya' di malam hari untuk mengurusi lahan pertaniannya atau ronda menjaga lahannya dari pencuri. Ngoc memiliki lahan pertanian seluas 5 hektar yang terletak di wilayah kaki gunung di Que Trung, distrik Que Son, Thailand. Sehari-hari Ngoc sibuk bertani dan mengurusi hewan-hewan ternaknya, seperti ayam dan babi.

Anehnya, kesehatan Ngoc tidak terpengaruh dengan kebiasaan tidak bisa tidur tersebut. Sang istri pernah membawa Ngoc untuk memeriksakan kesehatannya dan dokter menyatakan, secara keseluruhan kondisi Ngoc sehat. Kecuali, ada sedikit masalah pada fungsi hatinya, namun tidak serius.

"Saya tidak tahu apakah insomnia yang saya alami mempengaruhi kesehatan saya atau tidak. Tapi saya merasa tetap sehat dan bisa bertani seperti yang lainnya," ucap Ngoc. Pria itu bahkan mengaku setiap harinya masih mampu membawa 50 kg karung pupuk sembari berjalan turun gunung sejauh 4 km.

2. Michel Lotito, pria pemakan segala

Michel Lotito yang lahir pada 15 Juni 1950 adalah seorang entertainer. Di Prancis, dia dikenal sebagai Monsieur Mangetout (Mister Eat-it-all) alias 'Pria Pemakan Segala'. Dalam atraksinya, Lotito gemar memakan benda-benda yang secara normal tak bisa dicerna tubuh manusia, seperti logam, kaca, karet. Bahkan juga benda-benda lain seperti sepeda, televisi, hingga pesawat Cessna 150. Benda-benda tersebut terlebih dahulu dibongkar dan dipotong-potong menjadi bagian yang lebih kecil, baru kemudian dimakannya. Lotito diketahui pernah memakan badan pesawat selama 2 tahun, dari 1978-1980

. Kebiasaan makan benda-benda tak lazim ini dilakukan Lotito sejak kecil dan mulai dipamerkan ke publik pada tahun 1966 silam. Meskipun kerap memakan benda-benda aneh, kondisi tubuh dan kesehatan Lotito seolah tak terpengaruh. Dia sama sekali tidak mengalami sakit apapun meskipun telah memakan benda-benda yang mengandung racun.

Ketika memakan berkilo-kilo logam atau benda aneh lainnya, Lotito dibantu dengan minyak mineral atau air dalam jumlah banyak untuk membantu pencernaannya. Menurut pemeriksaan medis, Lotito dinyatakan memiliki perut dan usus dengan ketebalan dua kali lipat dari ukuran normal. Selain itu, asam pencernaan yang ada di dalam lambungnya diperkirakan memiliki kekuatan luar biasa sehingga mampu mencerna benda-benda logam yang dia makan. Luar biasa!

3. Matayoshi Mitsuo, mengaku sebagai Yesus Kristus Politikus eksentrik Jepang ini mengaku dirinya adalah Yesus Kristus. Menurut visi Matayoshi, pria ini mengklaim akan melakukan penghakiman terakhir sebagai Kristus namun dengan cara yang benar-benar sesuai dengan sistem politik saat ini.

Matayoshi menuturkan, langkah pertama yang harus dijalaninya sebagai Juruselamat adalah dengan terpilih menjadi Perdana Menteri Jepang. Kemudian dia akan mereformasi masyarakat Jepang. Tidak hanya itu, Matayoshi juga meminta PBB untuk memberikannya posisi terhormat sebagai Sekretaris Jenderal PBB. Dengan demikian, Matayoshi akan bisa memerintah seluruh dunia dengan dua jabatan legal tersebut, tidak hanya secara agama tapi juga secara politik.

Matayoshi telah berulang kali ikut serta dalam pemilihan umum di Jepang, namun tidak pernah berhasil menang. Dia dikenal karena kampanyenya yang eksentrik -dia pernah menyerukan para rival politiknya untuk bunuh diri dengan melakukan harakiri.

4. Shoichi Yokoi, 28 tahun sembunyi di gua usai PD II

Yokoi tadinya seorang tentara yang tergabung dalam wajib militer di Tentara Kerajaan Jepang pada tahun 1941 silam dan tak lama kemudian dikirim ke Guam. Pada tahun 1944, ketika pasukan Amerika Serikat menduduki Guam, Yokoi memilih bersembunyi.

Hingga akhirnya pada 24 Januari 1972, Yokoi ditemukan di sebuah daerah terpencil di Guam oleh dua warga pulau tersebut. Selama 28 tahun, pria itu hidup bersembunyi di dalam gua bawah tanah di tengah hutan. Yokoi terlalu takut untuk keluar, bahkan setelah dia menemukan selebaran yang isinya menyebutkan bahwa Perang Dunia II telah berakhir.

Yokoi akhirnya dipulangkan ke Jepang sembari membawa senapannya yang telah berkarat.

5. Sanju Bhagat, 'mengandung' saudara kembarnya di dalam perut

Pria asal India ini memiliki kondisi perut yang tidak wajar, yakni membengkak seperti sedang hamil 9 bulan. Bhagat yang tinggal di Nagpur, India ini sering merasa sesak nafas karena kondisinya itu.

Sampai akhirnya pada suatu malam di bulan Juni 1999, Bhagat menjalani operasi di rumah sakit. Isi perut Bhagat yang awalnya diduga tumor ganas, ternyata merupakan sesuatu yang tak diduga sama sekali. Saat dioperasi, dokter menemukan sejumlah bagian tubuh manusia di bagian dalam perut Bhagat. Bagian-bagian tubuh tersebut ternyata milik saudara kembar Bhagat yang terjebak di dalam perutnya sejak lahir.

Dokter menyatakan, Bhagat mengalami kondisi medis teraneh di dunia, yakni janin di dalam janin lainnya. Sangat jarang terjadi bahwa sebuah janin bisa terjebak di dalam janin kembarannya sendiri. Menariknya, janin yang terjebak ini mampu bertahan hidup sebagai parasit dan menyerap darah dan makanan dari tubuh Bhagat, hingga dia bertambah besar dan mulai menyakiti tubuh Bhagat.

6. Mehran Karimi Nasseri, hidup di bandara sejak 1988

Pria yang juga dikenal sebagai Sir, Alfred Mehran ini merupakan seorang pengungsi asal Iran yang tinggal di Bandara Charles de Gaulle, Prancis sejak Agustus 8 Agustus 1988. Mehran tinggal di ruang tunggu keberangkatan di Terminal Satu bandara internasional di Paris itu selama bertahun-tahun karena tak memiliki dokumen.

Kisah Mehran ini dimulai ketika dia dipenjara dan dianiaya di Iran, kemudian dibuang keluar negeri. Mehran lalu berusaha mendapatkan suaka ke sejumlah negara di Eropa, tapi usahanya tidak membuahkan hasil.

Saat mencoba pergi ke Inggris, Mehran mengklaim bahwa dirinya dirampok dan tasnya dicuri orang saat akan berangkat menuju Bandara Charles de Gaulle untuk terbang ke Inggris. Dia pun berhasil naik ke pesawat dan terbang ke Inggris. Tapi setibanya di Bandara Heathrow di London, Inggris, Mehran yang tidak membawa dokumen-dokumen yang diperlukan, diterbangkan kembali ke Bandara Charles de Gaulle.

Kepada otoritas Prancis, Mehran tak bisa menunjukkan identitas maupun dokumen-dokumen yang membuktikan dirinya sebagai seorang pengungsi. Dia pun dipindahkan ke zona tunggu, sebuah tempat 'penahanan' bagi pelancong tanpa dokumen.

Kisah Mehran ini konon menjadi inspirasi bagi film 'The Terminal' keluaran tahun 2004, yang dibintangi oleh aktor Hollywood, Tom Hanks. Namun tidak seperti karakter yang diperankan Hanks dalam film tersebut yang tinggal di area transit bandara, Mehran justru tinggal di area keberangkatan, juga di dekat butik-butik dan restoran yang berada di lantai dasar.

Selama tinggal di bandara, Mehran terlihat jarang berkomunikasi dengan orang lain. Dengan membawa-bawa kereta dorong dan tasnya, Mehran tampak seperti pelancong biasa, tanpa ada yang menyadari bahwa dia sebenarnya adalah gelandangan.

Pria Aneh Di Dunia

“It was really nice to play with other women and not have this underlying tone of being at each other’s throats.”

ay 4, 2015 ‘Game of Thrones’ Q&A: Keisha Castle-Hughes on the Tao of the Sand Snakes

Fullmer, who reigned when fight clubs abounded and Friday night fights were a television staple, was known for his title bouts with Sugar Ray Robinson and Carmen Basilio.

Gene Fullmer, a Brawling Middleweight Champion, Dies at 83

From sea to shining sea, or at least from one side of the Hudson to the other, politicians you have barely heard of are being accused of wrongdoing. There were so many court proceedings involving public officials on Monday that it was hard to keep up.

In Newark, two underlings of Gov. Chris Christie were arraigned on charges that they were in on the truly deranged plot to block traffic leading onto the George Washington Bridge.

Ten miles away, in Lower Manhattan, Dean G. Skelos, the leader of the New York State Senate, and his son, Adam B. Skelos, were arrested by the Federal Bureau of Investigation on accusations of far more conventional political larceny, involving a job with a sewer company for the son and commissions on title insurance and bond work.

The younger man managed to receive a 150 percent pay increase from the sewer company even though, as he said on tape, he “literally knew nothing about water or, you know, any of that stuff,” according to a criminal complaint the United States attorney’s office filed.

The success of Adam Skelos, 32, was attributed by prosecutors to his father’s influence as the leader of the Senate and as a potentate among state Republicans. The indictment can also be read as one of those unfailingly sad tales of a father who cannot stop indulging a grown son. The senator himself is not alleged to have profited from the schemes, except by being relieved of the burden of underwriting Adam.

The bridge traffic caper is its own species of crazy; what distinguishes the charges against the two Skeloses is the apparent absence of a survival instinct. It is one thing not to know anything about water or that stuff. More remarkable, if true, is the fact that the sewer machinations continued even after the former New York Assembly speaker, Sheldon Silver, was charged in January with taking bribes disguised as fees.

It was by then common gossip in political and news media circles that Senator Skelos, a Republican, the counterpart in the Senate to Mr. Silver, a Democrat, in the Assembly, could be next in line for the criminal dock. “Stay tuned,” the United States attorney, Preet Bharara said, leaving not much to the imagination.

Even though the cat had been unmistakably belled, Skelos father and son continued to talk about how to advance the interests of the sewer company, though the son did begin to use a burner cellphone, the kind people pay for in cash, with no traceable contracts.

That was indeed prudent, as prosecutors had been wiretapping the cellphones of both men. But it would seem that the burner was of limited value, because by then the prosecutors had managed to secure the help of a business executive who agreed to record calls with the Skeloses. It would further seem that the business executive was more attentive to the perils of pending investigations than the politician.

Through the end of the New York State budget negotiations in March, the hopes of the younger Skelos rested on his father’s ability to devise legislation that would benefit the sewer company. That did not pan out. But Senator Skelos did boast that he had haggled with Gov. Andrew M. Cuomo, a Democrat, in a successful effort to raise a $150 million allocation for Long Island to $550 million, for what the budget called “transformative economic development projects.” It included money for the kind of work done by the sewer company.

The lawyer for Adam Skelos said he was not guilty and would win in court. Senator Skelos issued a ringing declaration that he was unequivocally innocent.

THIS was also the approach taken in New Jersey by Bill Baroni, a man of great presence and eloquence who stopped outside the federal courthouse to note that he had taken risks as a Republican by bucking his party to support paid family leave, medical marijuana and marriage equality. “I would never risk my career, my job, my reputation for something like this,” Mr. Baroni said. “I am an innocent man.”

The lawyer for his co-defendant, Bridget Anne Kelly, the former deputy chief of staff to Mr. Christie, a Republican, said that she would strongly rebut the charges.

Perhaps they had nothing to do with the lane closings. But neither Mr. Baroni nor Ms. Kelly addressed the question of why they did not return repeated calls from the mayor of Fort Lee, N.J., begging them to stop the traffic tie-ups, over three days.

That silence was a low moment. But perhaps New York hit bottom faster. Senator Skelos, the prosecutors charged, arranged to meet Long Island politicians at the wake of Wenjian Liu, a New York City police officer shot dead in December, to press for payments to the company employing his son.

Sometimes it seems as though for some people, the only thing to be ashamed of is shame itself.

Finding Scandal in New York and New Jersey, but No Shame

Under Mr. Michelin’s leadership, which ended when he left the company in 2002, the Michelin Group became the world’s biggest tire maker, establishing a big presence in the United States and other major markets overseas.

François Michelin, Head of Tire Company, Dies at 88

A 2-minute-42-second demo recording captured in one take turned out to be a one-hit wonder for Mr. Ely, who was 19 when he sang the garage-band classic.

Jack Ely, Who Sang the Kingsmen’s ‘Louie Louie’, Dies at 71

Mr. Tepper was not a musical child and had no formal training, but he grew up to write both lyrics and tunes, trading off duties with the other member of the team, Roy C. Bennett.

Sid Tepper Dies at 96; Delivered ‘Red Roses for a Blue Lady’ and Other Songs

BALTIMORE — In the afternoons, the streets of Locust Point are clean and nearly silent. In front of the rowhouses, potted plants rest next to steps of brick or concrete. There is a shopping center nearby with restaurants, and a grocery store filled with fresh foods.

And the National Guard and the police are largely absent. So, too, residents say, are worries about what happened a few miles away on April 27 when, in a space of hours, parts of this city became riot zones.

“They’re not our reality,” Ashley Fowler, 30, said on Monday at the restaurant where she works. “They’re not what we’re living right now. We live in, not to be racist, white America.”

As Baltimore considers its way forward after the violent unrest brought by the death of Freddie Gray, a 25-year-old black man who died of injuries he suffered while in police custody, residents in its predominantly white neighborhoods acknowledge that they are sometimes struggling to understand what beyond Mr. Gray’s death spurred the turmoil here. For many, the poverty and troubled schools of gritty West Baltimore are distant troubles, glimpsed only when they pass through the area on their way somewhere else.

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Officers blocked traffic at Pennsylvania and West North Avenues after reports that a gun was discharged in the area. Credit Drew Angerer for The New York Times

And so neighborhoods of Baltimore are facing altogether different reckonings after Mr. Gray’s death. In mostly black communities like Sandtown-Winchester, where some of the most destructive rioting played out last week, residents are hoping businesses will reopen and that the police will change their strategies. But in mostly white areas like Canton and Locust Point, some residents wonder what role, if any, they should play in reimagining stretches of Baltimore where they do not live.

“Most of the people are kind of at a loss as to what they’re supposed to do,” said Dr. Richard Lamb, a dentist who has practiced in the same Locust Point office for nearly 39 years. “I listen to the news reports. I listen to the clergymen. I listen to the facts of the rampant unemployment and the lack of opportunities in the area. Listen, I pay my taxes. Exactly what can I do?”

And in Canton, where the restaurants have clever names like Nacho Mama’s and Holy Crepe Bakery and Café, Sara Bahr said solutions seemed out of reach for a proudly liberal city.

“I can only imagine how frustrated they must be,” said Ms. Bahr, 36, a nurse who was out with her 3-year-old daughter, Sally. “I just wish I knew how to solve poverty. I don’t know what to do to make it better.”

The day of unrest and the overwhelmingly peaceful demonstrations that followed led to hundreds of arrests, often for violations of the curfew imposed on the city for five consecutive nights while National Guard soldiers patrolled the streets. Although there were isolated instances of trouble in Canton, the neighborhood association said on its website, many parts of southeast Baltimore were physically untouched by the tumult.

Tensions in the city bubbled anew on Monday after reports that the police had wounded a black man in Northwest Baltimore. The authorities denied those reports and sent officers to talk with the crowds that gathered while other officers clutching shields blocked traffic at Pennsylvania and West North Avenues.

Lt. Col. Melvin Russell, a community police officer, said officers had stopped a man suspected of carrying a handgun and that “one of those rounds was spent.”

Colonel Russell said officers had not opened fire, “so we couldn’t have shot him.”

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Lambi Vasilakopoulos, right, who runs a casual restaurant in Canton, said he was incensed by last week's looting and predicted tensions would worsen. Credit Drew Angerer for The New York Times

The colonel said the man had not been injured but was taken to a hospital as a precaution. Nearby, many people stood in disbelief, despite the efforts by the authorities to quash reports they described as “unfounded.”

Monday’s episode was a brief moment in a larger drama that has yielded anger and confusion. Although many people said they were familiar with accounts of the police harassing or intimidating residents, many in Canton and Locust Point said they had never experienced it themselves. When they watched the unrest, which many protesters said was fueled by feelings that they lived only on Baltimore’s margins, even those like Ms. Bahr who were pained by what they saw said they could scarcely comprehend the emotions associated with it.

But others, like Lambi Vasilakopoulos, who runs a casual restaurant in Canton, said they were incensed by what unfolded last week.

“What happened wasn’t called for. Protests are one thing; looting is another thing,” he said, adding, “We’re very frustrated because we’re the ones who are going to pay for this.”

There were pockets of optimism, though, that Baltimore would enter a period of reconciliation.

“I’m just hoping for peace,” Natalie Boies, 53, said in front of the Locust Point home where she has lived for 50 years. “Learn to love each other; be patient with each other; find justice; and care.”

A skeptical Mr. Vasilakopoulos predicted tensions would worsen.

“It cannot be fixed,” he said. “It’s going to get worse. Why? Because people don’t obey the laws. They don’t want to obey them.”

But there were few fears that the violence that plagued West Baltimore last week would play out on these relaxed streets. The authorities, Ms. Fowler said, would make sure of that.

“They kept us safe here,” she said. “I didn’t feel uncomfortable when I was in my house three blocks away from here. I knew I was going to be O.K. because I knew they weren’t going to let anyone come and loot our properties or our businesses or burn our cars.”

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Dennis Tueller, the instructor in that class more than three decades ago, decided to find out. In the fall of 1982, he performed a rudimentary series of tests and concluded that an armed attacker who bolted toward an officer could clear 21 feet in the time it took most officers to draw, aim and fire their weapon.

The next spring, Mr. Tueller published his findings in SWAT magazine and transformed police training in the United States. The “21-foot rule” became dogma. It has been taught in police academies around the country, accepted by courts and cited by officers to justify countless shootings, including recent episodes involving a homeless woodcarver in Seattle and a schizophrenic woman in San Francisco.

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Even as a high school student, Dave Goldberg was urging female classmates to speak up. As a young dot-com executive, he had one girlfriend after another, but fell hard for a driven friend named Sheryl Sandberg, pining after her for years. After they wed, Mr. Goldberg pushed her to negotiate hard for high compensation and arranged his schedule so that he could be home with their children when she was traveling for work.

Mr. Goldberg, who died unexpectedly on Friday, was a genial, 47-year-old Silicon Valley entrepreneur who built his latest company, SurveyMonkey, from a modest enterprise to one recently valued by investors at $2 billion. But he was also perhaps the signature male feminist of his era: the first major chief executive in memory to spur his wife to become as successful in business as he was, and an essential figure in “Lean In,” Ms. Sandberg’s blockbuster guide to female achievement.

Over the weekend, even strangers were shocked at his death, both because of his relatively young age and because they knew of him as the living, breathing, car-pooling center of a new philosophy of two-career marriage.

“They were very much the role models for what this next generation wants to grapple with,” said Debora L. Spar, the president of Barnard College. In a 2011 commencement speech there, Ms. Sandberg told the graduates that whom they married would be their most important career decision.

In the play “The Heidi Chronicles,” revived on Broadway this spring, a male character who is the founder of a media company says that “I don’t want to come home to an A-plus,” explaining that his ambitions require him to marry an unthreatening helpmeet. Mr. Goldberg grew up to hold the opposite view, starting with his upbringing in progressive Minneapolis circles where “there was woman power in every aspect of our lives,” Jeffrey Dachis, a childhood friend, said in an interview.

The Goldberg parents read “The Feminine Mystique” together — in fact, Mr. Goldberg’s father introduced it to his wife, according to Ms. Sandberg’s book. In 1976, Paula Goldberg helped found a nonprofit to aid children with disabilities. Her husband, Mel, a law professor who taught at night, made the family breakfast at home.

Later, when Dave Goldberg was in high school and his prom date, Jill Chessen, stayed silent in a politics class, he chastised her afterward. He said, “You need to speak up,” Ms. Chessen recalled in an interview. “They need to hear your voice.”

Years later, when Karin Gilford, an early employee at Launch Media, Mr. Goldberg’s digital music company, became a mother, he knew exactly what to do. He kept giving her challenging assignments, she recalled, but also let her work from home one day a week. After Yahoo acquired Launch, Mr. Goldberg became known for distributing roses to all the women in the office on Valentine’s Day.

Ms. Sandberg, who often describes herself as bossy-in-a-good-way, enchanted him when they became friendly in the mid-1990s. He “was smitten with her,” Ms. Chessen remembered. Ms. Sandberg was dating someone else, but Mr. Goldberg still hung around, even helping her and her then-boyfriend move, recalled Bob Roback, a friend and co-founder of Launch. When they finally married in 2004, friends remember thinking how similar the two were, and that the qualities that might have made Ms. Sandberg intimidating to some men drew Mr. Goldberg to her even more.

Over the next decade, Mr. Goldberg and Ms. Sandberg pioneered new ways of capturing information online, had a son and then a daughter, became immensely wealthy, and hashed out their who-does-what-in-this-marriage issues. Mr. Goldberg’s commute from the Bay Area to Los Angeles became a strain, so he relocated, later joking that he “lost the coin flip” of where they would live. He paid the bills, she planned the birthday parties, and both often left their offices at 5:30 so they could eat dinner with their children before resuming work afterward.

Friends in Silicon Valley say they were careful to conduct their careers separately, politely refusing when outsiders would ask one about the other’s work: Ms. Sandberg’s role building Facebook into an information and advertising powerhouse, and Mr. Goldberg at SurveyMonkey, which made polling faster and cheaper. But privately, their work was intertwined. He often began statements to his team with the phrase “Well, Sheryl said” sharing her business advice. He counseled her, too, starting with her salary negotiations with Mark Zuckerberg.

“I wanted Mark to really feel he stretched to get Sheryl, because she was worth it,” Mr. Goldberg explained in a 2013 “60 Minutes” interview, his Minnesota accent and his smile intact as he offered a rare peek of the intersection of marriage and money at the top of corporate life.

 

 

While his wife grew increasingly outspoken about women’s advancement, Mr. Goldberg quietly advised the men in the office on family and partnership matters, an associate said. Six out of 16 members of SurveyMonkey’s management team are female, an almost unheard-of ratio among Silicon Valley “unicorns,” or companies valued at over $1 billion.

When Mellody Hobson, a friend and finance executive, wrote a chapter of “Lean In” about women of color for the college edition of the book, Mr. Goldberg gave her feedback on the draft, a clue to his deep involvement. He joked with Ms. Hobson that she was too long-winded, like Ms. Sandberg, but aside from that, he said he loved the chapter, she said in an interview.

By then, Mr. Goldberg was a figure of fascination who inspired a “where can I get one of those?” reaction among many of the women who had read the best seller “Lean In.” Some lamented that Ms. Sandberg’s advice hinged too much on marrying a Dave Goldberg, who was humble enough to plan around his wife, attentive enough to worry about which shoes his young daughter would wear, and rich enough to help pay for the help that made the family’s balancing act manageable.

Now that he is gone, and Ms. Sandberg goes from being half of a celebrated partnership to perhaps the business world’s most prominent single mother, the pages of “Lean In” carry a new sting of loss.

“We are never at 50-50 at any given moment — perfect equality is hard to define or sustain — but we allow the pendulum to swing back and forth between us,” she wrote in 2013, adding that they were looking forward to raising teenagers together.

“Fortunately, I have Dave to figure it out with me,” she wrote.

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